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We had achieved that happy state of companionability that comes from being completely at ease with each other.

Blessed with a country home in Wales and a house in Central London, we enjoyed all that these contrasting worlds had to offer.

Whether we were tramping over mountains in our hiking boots, cuddled up on the sofa in front of a roaring fire watching a TV box set or out at a smart Kensington restaurant I felt equally content.

So when two years ago my husband, motor racing entrepreneur Jonathan Ashman walked out on our marriage without notice or explanation I was, for the first time in my life, utterly heartbroken.

He, however, was my only husband and I’d intended our commitment to be a lifelong one, which is why I felt so bruised and miserable after his desertion. In fact I’m among an increasing number of ‘silver’ divorcees who are bucking a national trend: while separations among younger couples are steadily falling, the over-55s is the only age group in which divorce rates continue to rise.

I thought he was my rock, but I discovered, although he wasn’t unfaithful, Jonathan was guilty of deceiving me. So more and more older singletons are dating again.

Life has an unerring capacity to surprise us and the end of my marriage was one of those unforeseeable shocks.

After eight blissful years it seemed — to me at least — that our relationship was unassailable.

At 51 years old and single, I am now part of a growing group surfing a zeitgeistian wave of 50-plus freedom.

And, in my experience, this is the best age yet for flying solo.

Those who remain married into their fifth decade can sometimes wear their marriage like a status symbol. Thrice-married actress Kim Cattrall, who celebrated her 60th birthday this year, says of her single status: “You know so much more about what you want and what you don’t want and what you’ll put up with.

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